9 Months In – 9 Months Out

Hello Vivacious Fam

Hope all of you are staying safe during this pandemic situation. It has been more than 2 months and for everyone things have changed. I wanted to talk more about COVID but here is the thing, I actually wrote a different blog about that and right now that one is in drafts. The plans was to post that one this week but then 16th May 2020 came. You ask me what is so special about that day. Avik turned 9 months. It is hard for me to actually believe that but Truth is Time’s Flying. My tiny little heart is growing up fast. I had to jot down this memory in my blog and that’s why we here sharing my 9 Months In – 9 Months Out story.

My journey of 9 months of pregnancy was Fun. Not a single complaint I have ( except the last week of pregnancy ). I was able to eat and sleep and dance and what not. When AV was inside me, he was very active baby. He started dancing (or whatever they do inside the belly) from week 13th only. I used to pat him, record his movements, play music for him. Sometimes it felt stupid but then I wanted to be engaged and connected to my heartbeat. AV was due on 16th Aug 2019 and he picked the very same day to arrive also. But that week before delivery was one painful week for me. Every day at night I was going through major contractions but during day nothing. Because of which even doctors were not ready to admit me. I had cried out of pain that whole week. Pheww. But when he was born, it was worth all the pain. Holding him that night is my most precious moment.

My journey of Mommyhood is going well. Thanks to AV, he is not much of a trouble maker. I have read lot about boys trait that they are very good till they turn 1. After that the game is changed. Waiting for that phase to come but for now things are going smooth. He has a very nice schedule ( I will take a little credit here) and adjusts easily to any change. Right now he takes 3 meals and 6 feeds in whole day. He is sitting properly and sort of started crawling ( backwards.. yeah!). I love to watch him do stupid things and (do not call me crazy) browse my photo gallery to watch his videos and pictures for 100 times a day.

Truth is, I am a Mom now. I never thought I will be a mom. Even the 9 months of pregnancy, I always wondered how will I understand my baby or do something for him when I myself, am clueless. Truth be told, I still don’t know anything. My mom says I will understand what my baby wants always. But I don’t. I understand the things he does on daily basis or sounds he makes on regular to get an idea what he might want. Sometimes he gets what he wants or sometimes he just gets distracted. And that is what Motherhood is for me. I might not know Right or Wrong but I know that I have to make that little face smile.

So 3 months more and he will be 1 year old. My Big Boy. I will share more fun facts about AV then. For now wait for next VW Edit which is on one of the most lovable trend.

Till Then, Keep Loving and Supporting
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21 COMMENTS

  1. Michelle | 20th May 20

    AV is adorable! I think most new moms are winging it, but if the baby is healthy and happy, then youโ€™re doing all right. AV looks to be both.

    Michelle
    https://mybijoulifeonline.com

    • Vaishali | 20th May 20

      Thankks love. You just made me feel good ๐Ÿ™‚

  2. Laura Bambrick | 20th May 20

    What a sweet post! I love this idea! You are both so cute!

    • Vaishali | 20th May 20

      Thanks beautiful ๐Ÿ™‚

  3. jodie filogomo | 20th May 20

    He is adorable. How nice that he’s not that much trouble…at least yet, haha.
    XOOX
    Jodie
    http://www.jtouchofstyle.com

  4. Gail | 21st May 20

    Momentous and happy changes in your life. You looked stunning in the black dress and AV looks such a cheerful baby. Thanks for joining #WowOnWednesday.

    • Vaishali | 21st May 20

      Thanks a lot hun ๐Ÿ™‚

  5. Ada | 22nd May 20

    OMG you were a gorgeous pregnant lady all the way to 9 months. LOVED THAT YOU DID THIS POST AND ITS TITLE. Motherhood is not easy and a lot of times it feels like we don’t know what the heck we are doing and that’s OK. No one knows your child more or better than you do. It’s ok to listen to advise but at the end of the day, do it as you know it and how you feel it. Love that you two dressed up for this special post. Oh and a fun fact he is exactly 3 days younger than my nephew.

    Welcome by and join my Thursday Moda this week and every week. =)

    http://eleganceandmommyhood.blogspot.com/2020/05/thursday-moda-212-looking-forward-part.html

    • Vaishali | 26th May 20

      Thanks for all the beautiful words and great advice. I agree with you that we should listen to all but do what is best for our kiddo. And wat a fun conincidence about your nephew and AV.

  6. Yoga for knee pain | 22nd May 20

    You and the baby looks beautiful

    • Vaishali | 26th May 20

      Aww thanks a tonne ๐Ÿ™‚

  7. Mica | 25th May 20

    Oh what a great idea with the pregnancy and 9 months after pics! I wish I’d done that with my little ones! ๐Ÿ™‚ Pregnancy can be really tough but as you said it’s all worth it in the end!

    Hope you had a great weekend! It was a cold one here, winter arrived early!

    Thanks so much for joining the #WeekdayWearLinkup! The new link up is live on my blog now, I’d love you to join again. ๐Ÿ™‚

    • Vaishali | 26th May 20

      Thanks for checking on us. It was good weekend and hoping same for you.
      I actually am more excited about 9 months in & out than 1 year old for some reason. lol

  8. Makeup Muddle | 25th May 20

    Oh wow what a cute idea for a post! Your baby is so cute, and you look incredible in that dress xo

    Makeup Muddle

  9. Jill | 26th May 20

    Your little guy is adorable! And you look stunning in that dress!

    Jill – Doused in Pink

  10. Cris A Santos | 14th Jun 20

    This is such a wonderful time darling Congratulations on your gorgeous baby and motherhood is clueless but so important and rewarding My boys were also born on 16 of August 14 years ago Enjoy the journey and do not stress too much You look amazing Have a wonderful week xoxo Cris
    http://www.photosbycris.com.au/?p=6040

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